Ella Noir

24 Hour Poll

TLDR: Vote whether BDSiM Traits should stay exclusive or revert to original nonexclusive Traits with the possibility of improvement.

Okay, so. FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM once was different. Yes. ...

FlirtyFetishes Fix 3.20

Missing Master, Mistress, and Masochist Trait and Books not working has now been fixed! Let me know if you experience any issues with this update. 

Also fixed the Dominant Skill and Ownership relationship!

Please replace the older...

*UPDATE* January's FlirtyFetishes PART I

*Please read! 

Hi! I apologize for the last-minute update. Illness has struck my household and it has been quite occupying. 

*PART I ONLY, PART II is COMING! 

2024-02-01 00:46:36 +0000 UTC View Post

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Has Something You May Like...

Heyyy. Ever heard the phrase "flavor of the week"? Have you ever wanted a "Fetish of the Month"? No, never thought about that? Okay, well, wh...

FF Poll: BDSiM Career vs Hiring BDSiM Services

Hey everyone! I hope you all are enjoying the latest FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM and are enjoying the holidays. Idk about you, but I am so ready for this shit to be over. Take your nutmeg and leave me the f alone, already. 

Anyway, I have thi...

Spank You Very Much!--FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM December Update!!!

*Fixed Contract of Consent interfering with BFF relbit.

Hi! I have finally reached a point in my TS4 BDSM mod that I am happy to upload!

First things first:

I was able to not only add the special BDSiM slave collar, but it will a...

To Spank or Not to Spank? *December's Update Preview*

Now you can decide with the new "Spank"  Social Interaction with custom animation in December's update!

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM December update ...

Check This Out

Hey! If you didn't catch this on my X account or Discord, FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is seemingly compatible with Patch 1.103.250.1020 of December 5. Please let me know here if you encounter any issues AFTER you have c...

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM November UPDATE

Yay! I made it...I hope it. I greatly apologize for the delay!

This month's update includes some elements I have gotten requests for. I will add to them more in December's update.

First, we have a BDSiM twist to an existing feature tha...

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM--Coming Soon!

Hey everyone! I have been working on a few things you're going to like for this month's update. Marysal brought the FlirtyFetishes collar to the game and I am so proud of her! 

2023-11-20 16:40:42 +0000 UTC View Post

Yay! FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Fix

The issue has been resolved. So download this and you should have some nice BDSiM time with your Sims--error-free. However, if you do get any errors or need support, please feel free to reach out! 

October 31 Patch

Hello everyone! The temporary fix I have put out seems to work for the most part. I did encounter an LE when I cheated the submissive Major Skill to level 10. There may be some more of those that pop in other elements of the game. I am working on ...

FlirtyFetishes Temporary Fix

Heyyy. So right now I have FF the exact same but with a little fix to stop the LE from occurring every time the Sadist trait socials are used. I will be adding an update on Friday or Saturday with some cool stuff so make sure you are "tier-ready"....

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Update & Future Preview

Heyyyy.

This month's update began with a lot of hope and intention. However, there were a few setbacks that kept it from coming in as keenly as I wanted. But do not fret! In due time, skills will be honed and intentions will become tangible....

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Guide 2025

The Flirty Sim’s Guide to BDSiM

A detailed walkthrough of how to play EllaNoir’s FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM, the BDSM mod for the Sims 4.

by EllaNoir

*This mod was created with no affiliation to The Sims 4 or EA G...

Latest Patch--September 5th

Heyyyy. FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is compatible with the latest patch! 

Also, if everything goes according to plan, get ready for something pretty fucking cool in this month's update! 

Stay tuned and thanks for being here. <...

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM *UPDATE* for August

Well, hello everyone.

I have something exciting I am dying to show you!

This is for the Collaring Social! And I would like all of you to than...

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Update for July

Hey! So I have here the newest update of FlirtyFetishes for you. I had a few other things I wanted to add but I need more time to get them just right. So for this update, you have as promised:

Moods!

2023-07-21 16:10:26 +0000 UTC View Post

Patch for July 18th

Hey! I did not find any issues when I tested out FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM after the recent patch. Please let me know if you acquire any errors though! Just make sure you have tested my mod with NO OTHER MODS. See you soon!

New Tier Option

I just wanted to let everyone know that I have added a new tier. This one is called Good Goddess and is between the Mistress May I ($5) tier and the Master of All ($10) tier. 

You will get access to FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM 2 full weeks be...

Fixed Relationships!

Hey! So I was able to fix the relationship issue where Sims who were in a vanilla relationship like married couldn't create a D/s Dynamic. 

They can now! (I was definitely just being myself and over-complicating it. Oops.)

2023-07-06 18:55:11 +0000 UTC View Post

Poll Results & New Traits Coming

Hello everyone. The results are in and FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Moods will be added back into FF! Please expect this readdition in the new update coming out later this month.

In other news, I have promised a few of you the Traits Goddess & ...

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Poll

Remember FlirtyFetishes' moods? I deleted them because I was troubleshooting the Sims-disappearing-after-sex issue. Now that I found the reason FlirtyFetishes was not functioning properly due to outdated mods, I feel I can...